When My other Soul is Away..eh he is back!

I'm taking half day leave today...

Today that I'm gonna see my new handbag, Dania's Elmo...hehehe

Pagi2 dah pesan dengan Dania, we are going to fetch Babah & Don't sleep..She said okay..

Usually I failed to make her defer her nap time...But today she is a good girl..

According to her babysitter,she told her friends, she wants to fetch her Babah..but the time I reached her nursery, she already asked for her pillow..I'm late by 30 mins (I hate Persiaran Kewajipan!!!)

So, it's already 1.30pm and we are heading to KLIA.

I told Dania, she can now sleep while I'm driving, she said 'takpelah, Dania tak ngantuk'.

But finally half way to KLIA, she already sleeping.

When Babah is ready at Gate 4, I woke her up and told her Babah is here.

She replied (sleepy mode) Abah jauh pon, lambat lagi..

Then her Babah called her name, she weakly smiled back and continue sleeping..

Kesian betul.

We went to Ayam Kampung to tapau lunch & went home.

2 big bags are officially open.

Dania saw her Elmo while I got to see a lots of BAGS!!!!

Not all mine by the way.

I teased her that Abah left her new clothes, she is so sad and she asked why.

Nasib baik tak nangis mcm semalam.

Now she is able to show her 'rindu' but she not able to express it clearly.

Yesterday was the peak of her 'rindu', she pretend taking a train to see her Abah.

She brought in Kueh Raya for Babah to eat, her piano to sing along with Abah.

Penuh train tuh dengan things that she want bring for Babah..

She waived at me and says 'see you, Mama. Dania nak jumpa Babah'.

She is so excited until I told her, 'If you go, Mama will be left alone'.

Then, she get off from her train, and sit next to me..:D

Sangat phycho..kehkeh

I heart this.

Got an advance birthday gift from my other half.

Paling penting tak beli kat FO...Hehe..best best..:D

Thank you darling, jgn serik eh???

Husband said Coach store manager in SFO is a Malaysian. Best tuh, hehe.

Wei, Dania cakap Acik ponya Bag tertinggal pon...mesti ada pon hujung sentence dia..:D

Dania tido with her Elmo since 5.30pm until now (10pm) tak bangun lagik..Sapa yang jetlag ni??? Tido siap pakai baju baru & skirt baru...ecececeh

Simpati

Few days ago, I've got an update from my friend's problem.

She said, she has done almost everything and now she is redha.

Things are totally different.

They no longer talk to each other, no eye contact etc.

His heart is no longer at home.

Whatever she does to win his heart again is consider acting, insincere and it's too late.

He only see her bad side and he totally forgot her dedication to the family for more than 15 years.

Now they started to sleep separately.

The kids start to accept this faith.

She cried when she told me this.

I can't do much.

I can only listen.

It could happen to me.

When love is no longer there.

Too much influenced from this story, and too much lesson that I've learned.

My other half don't like it.

Minta dijauhkan.

What I have now is more than enough.

Penat

Sebenarnye Raya ni yg paling penat dan yang paling stress..

Time raya orang2 ni gatal nak launch keta baru..ngarut!

Time raya ni aku kejar semua org..

Bila lah rasanya nak berhenti buat semua ni..

Penat mengejar deadline..

Penat entertain all calls..

Penat dengan segala operation issues..
Penat dengan perangai boss yang ntah haper2, bankers yg remeh-temeh..

Harini aku,

Penat mengejar masa..

Penat terkejar masa untuk pick up anak untuk elak kene OT yg banyak..

Penat chase bank untuk disburse rumah baru..

Penat chase lawyer melayu bodoh yang explanation ntah haper2..

Penat buat calls, transfer calls, dengar alasan developer, bank & lawyer...

Hari ni belajar sesuatu baru..

Kita terlalu sibuk mengejar masa sehingga lupa menjaga hati sendiri..

Kita terlalu sibuk untuk menyenangi hidup orang lain sehingga diri sendiri yang dapat susah...

Kita terlalu sibuk itu ini..cerita duniawi yang tak pernah sudah..

Hingga terlupa Allah sedang memerhati..

Satu hari nanti aku nak rehat dari berfikir berterusan..

Rehat dari kesibukan.

Rehat dari menjadi ibu..

Rehat dari menjadi isteri..

Rehat dari menjadi kawan..

Rehat dari menjadi hamba kerja..

Rehat dari jadi kepochi..

Nak rehat nak rehat nak rehat..

err bile tuh?

When my other soul is away..Part 1

Bukan tak biasa, cuma boring sebab takde manusia yg boleh faham apa yg nak kubebelkan..

Kalau cerita kat Dania, she will asked u back..

Then she will keep on continue asking the same question although u've given her the answer..

'Babah pegi mana??' (soalan ini dalam 10x)

'Babah, nak jumpa Dania tak??'

'Babah, keje apa jauh2?'

'Bile Babah nak bangun tido, telefon Dania?'

'Babah naik plane, tak bawak mama dengan Dania pon'..

'Bile Babah nak balik?'

The list is growing..

Harini, soalan lain pulak.

'Mama, Babah ada beli baju Dania tak?'

'Kesian Babah, tak makan sama-sama Dania...'

Tapi Dania, Babah dah start shopping untuk kita..yeyeye

Suka suka suka..:D

Raya Part 2

I'm so in love with my version of Nasi Briyani Malas...

So easy, tak leceh & you just need 2 hours to prepare the dishes..of course u need to do it all and multitasking..

The dishes - Ayam Masak Merah, Kari Dhall & Sayur, Salad Timun Nenas.

Nasi Briyani versi Simple ( ikut sikit2 ajek petua Chef Wan ponya pesan)...

Tak tahu nak bagi recipe becoz the quantum of the ingredients just as much as I thought.

Bak kata orang secukup rasa, or Che Wan campak2 ajek..kehkehkeh..

If you are wondering, why i called it malas..
Less time spent..

Preparation is so simple..

Less than 2 hours..Hari ni tragic, gas habis while I'm just started to cook the briyani..

Dah 2x masak, satu pon my other half belum rasa lagik..

Kesian betul babah Dania..I finished my cooking just 30 mins after he is gone with the airport taxi..

Dania keep on asking Abah pegi mana, more than 10x time for every e-conversation with her babah..

Yang paling best, 'Abah nak jumpa Dania tak?'..

isk isk..soalan mencabar minda..

My 3 years doter can't stop asking, questioning and converse non stop.

Esok, goreng mee ajek..meh lah datang..:D

Raya Part 1

Few days before Raya, I managed to prepare 6 sets of brooches for Dania's babysitter at her nursery. For the past few years, I've been giving them Kain for Baju Kurung but this year I don't have much time to choose the kain.

A day before Raya, ingatkan balik Seremban nak tolong mak masak, tapi sampai2 aje tolong kacau rendang ajek..iskk

Tapi sempat jugak masak kuah lodeh & kuah kacang. (itupon mak alter sebab kuah pekat sangat, kehkeh)..Ayah ordered lemang from his friend...

The last time I saw my other half wearing Baju Melayu complete with samping was on our wedding day (almost 8 years ago!!)..itupon he left his songkok at home and managed to buy one at Bazaar Ampangan...:D

That is the only Baju Raya that he bought for himself.. Sampai SFO boleh pulun shopping ye boss..:D

Dania knew that she has tudung to match with her baju raya..cesss

I guess she has improved a lot this year. She has been socializing, chatting with her cousins but as usual, do not disturb her nap time. She had a great time playing bunga api with her cousins and of course by herself alone.

The sweetest of all, she gave us this. Her artwork from nursery. Our first Kad Raya from Dania.

Salam Aidilfitri

Today is already 3rd Hari Raya..baru nak wish but bak kata orang better late than never..



Salam Aidilfitri untuk semua my blog readers..
Maaf Zahir & Batin, halalkan makan & minum..
Maafkan terkasar bahasa yang pasti ada..
Tersinggung pon banyak, biasalah lumrah manusia yang suka komplen..:D

Dari Ina, Imran & Insyirah..:D

Elmo & 4th September

Last Friday, we received a letter from our developer saying that they are ready to deliver the house as soon as we clear the outstanding amount which consist of late penalty charges, electricity, water, quit rent, maintenance fee, etc etc..we also need to chase the bank to disburse the last payment.

On Saturday morning, we decided to have a look at the house . We saw the water meter is ready, and we've met future neighbour 2 blocks away from our house.

That Kakak is using our house as their model for renovation.

Yeah people can go into my house & out freely but as soon as I got the keys, I'll lock the house, tunggu lah..:p

We have a guard living in the house and he is an Indian muslim.
As long as no damage to our property, I have no say.

That Kakak told us that they were charged almost RM4k for late penalty charges and they bought the property as same time as ours and they plan to move in on Oct. Our behind neighbour is an Indian Family. Wondering who would be my next door neighbour..tak kisah pon cuma curious to know ajek..hehe

We've met some of the contructors hanging around our house. Isk isk..Wait lah, we still need to beranakkan duit ni..we've already spent most of our money paying the downpayment & stamp duty..

We just need to do some minor extension at the back of the house, & built the behind wall.

Apekahal lah lah kat belakang dorang tak teruskan brick wall tuh..cesss..

Dania's Babah bought Elmo tix 2 weeks before the show..
3 months ago he said we don't hv to bring Dania to the show since Dania only knew Elmo but not his friends...

But he changed his mind few weeks ago and we managed to get quite good seat although it is not at the centre.

Yeah we saw Sheila Majid, her spouse & their kids at the show.

Not so many Malay audience in the afternoon show. Busy last minute shopping kot.

Earlier on, we went to SACC Mall but we surrenderred & went home for Dania's nap before the show.

We had our Iftar session on that day at my SIL's house.

Today, my other half finally bought his Baju Melayu with Samping (ehem!)..

We will be in green theme this year.