Thursday, November 24, 2011

Dakwah Halus




Tadika Methodist Mantin.
This is Safiqah kindy.

My dad chose this kindy for her but I will not write on this.

Mak dia pon tak kisah, so apa aku kisahkan??

Lama dah nak citer pasal dakwah halus ni.

In my office I have 2 devoted christian friends.


They are loving, caring, and humble. During free time, I always see one of them reading his Bible.
Tak penah tinggal Sunday prayers. Pernah sekali we had our Recretional Trip in Langkawi, one they flew back home just because tak nak miss his Sunday prayers.
Dorang tahu God is One cuma dorang tak boleh accept Allah is the one.
One of them has an adopted child yang dia ambil dari one of the church in Klang.
In this Church ada service they called it Birth Right.
A shelter place for pregnant women yang belum berkahwin.
She also mentioned that 'Ada budak melayu yang pregnant kat situ'.
She said her church staff ada tanya kat budak tuh that they knew one of the Ustazah who can also take care of them'.
The girl chose to stay in the church.

Kadang kita kene pikir kenapa budak tuh end up nak duduk kat church.
Kenapa dia tak nak pergi ke ustazah.
If she stay there, what happen to the babies?
Will she give to non-muslim parents to adopt?


So Safiqah kat kindy ni esok, akan belajar lagu church??

Fikirkanlah.

Dakwah halus ini dah lama berlaku kerana kesilapan approach kita berdakwah.
Contohnye kat sekolah Dania, Ustazah ajar, jangan minum Coke, jangan pegi Carefour, jangan makan McDonald.
Nanti Orang bukan Islam akan tembak orang Islam..
Orang bukan Islam bunuh orang Islam, bunuh kanak-kanak.
Err apakah?
She just 4 years old.
Seeloknye pendekatan menyayangi & menghormati sesama manusia dengan lebih meluas patut ditekan at this age.
Bukan mengajar budak2 ni membenci at younger age.
Kalau nak berdakwah sekali pon pastikan yang basic tentang Islam itu Indah dan Suci fully accepted by the kids.


Wallahualam.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Cabaran ketika memandikan anak kecil saya



Seperti yg anda semua maklum, kedua2 anak saya kaki tido..

diwarisi dari turun-temurun..:D

Dua2 juga seuka mengamuk untuk amek mood tido..Dhiya sampai 3 jam..

Tapi bile dah tido berjam2..hahaha


So, macam topic diatas, apakah cabaran ketika memandikan anak2 kecil yg kuat tido ini?


Kalau dia baru tido, jangan diganggu..kalau tak sepanjang mandi, dia akan mengamuk & mulut tak berhenti membebel..

Kalau dia dah lama tido hampir 2 jam, dia dah start gerak2 tuh boleh..TAPI kene susukan dulu..

Kalau tak dia akan menggelupur dan mengamuk ketika mandi..

Feeding pon kene full feeding..jgn separuh2, nanti lepas ajek sikat rambut, dia start mengamuk lapar..

Lepas mandi kene cepat keringkan badan dorang dan pakaikan pampers...
Sebabbbb dorang ni suka kentut bunyi meletup2..Dania dulu sebab terpancut poopnye kearah aku..

iskkk..So dgn Dhiya ni kene berhati2 jugak lah..hehe


Oh ya Dania dulu sangat ringan dan jarang mandi sebab bersimen..Dania dulu kitaorg lap ajek..

Dhiya sangat berat dan tetiap hari mandi..

Apakah cabaran ketika memandikan anak kecil anda?

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Usaha Tenusu

Breastfeeding...
Time Dania dulu, exclusive BF hanya 2 months ajek then after that campur dengan susu lembu..
Until I got sick, and took painkiller for my headache, I was told to stop BF immediately..
Disebabkan sakit kepala yang amat sangat, I did stop BF and concentrate on susu formula..
Alhamdullilah for these 4 years (touch wood) except for her clubfoot, Dania belum pernah sakit teruk..
Dia serasi dengan susu Enfalac/Enfagrow until 3 years old then we change to Dutch Lady 456..

With Dhiya, takyah target..kalau org lain target for 6 months, 1 year or 2 years..
I dare not..
Target makes me stress but I will try to BF selama mungkin..
Orang lain beli secanggih mungkin breast pump..ada budget so boleh beli yg elok..
Aku takde budget banyak..tapiiii
Aku ada 2 pump..Kenape 2?
Sebab Spectra 3 tuh ponya suction dah x power after 2 weeks guna..
Then I thought my production decreased..tak percaya sebab tuh beli pump lain..
First 2 weeks dgn spectra, 1 session i can pump as much as 7-9oz..both breast..
Sejak suction buat hal..jatuh ker 2-3oz or paling tinggi pon 4oz..
So I bought Avent Single Pump..
Alhamdullilah I got back my 7-9oz dengan hanya one side of the breast..

I got problem with my right breast, mmg heavy production betul..
Dhiya boleh tersedak minum sebab heavy flow..patut dia minum 2mins ajek..
Aku pump pon 2mins=2oz..best Avent ni x rasa sakit langsung..
Cuma bising ajek lah..itupon tolerable..:D

Hmm..less than a month, dah nak masuk opis..
Akan ku bawa pump ke opis...
Harap bawak pump ada hasil..
Sebab December would be most hectic month..
Kalau masa cuti boleh dapat dlm minmum 20oz per day..
Hopefully, paling kurang pon 12oz utk Dhiya minum kat taska (errr dapat ker Dhiya masuk Taska Lemon ni?)

eh set target ni..isk isk...tak kisah lah dpt berapa asal rajin pump..
kene curik masa..takleh bagitau boss nanti dia horny..hahaha
nanti kita citer lagik eh??




dah takde storage ni..punya banyak lebih 200oz, cukup utk 2 weeks ajek pon..

Friday, November 04, 2011

Dhiya @ 1 mth

Mak oi..
Mentang2 dah sebulan..she was so fussy yesterday..
Selalu her routine..5.30am wake up for feeding n tunggu sampai Babah & Kakak Dania kuar rumah until 8am..
Then kene jemur until 8.30am..lepas tuh mandi then feeding then tido sampai Kak Dania balik..
Then after tido- feeding-poo, tido-feeding-poo every 2 hours..


Petang jaga kejap then tido after maghrib continue tido-feeding-poo every 3-4 hours..
senang jaga kenit ni..but jaga Dania lg senang..maybe sebab Dania ni premmie n kurang ada perasaan..:D

On 3rd Nov..takde nampak mcm colic or gas ker haper ker...
Ku baca segala ayat2 suci kot kot ada gangguan ker haper ker..
tapi keep on crying for attention..
Nak dipeluk, didukung..tido pon nak sebelah..adusss..
I lost my patience sampai Dania pon terkejut dr tido..
Dah kene jerit baru kenit terus tido sampai ke pagi..
Hahaha mcm psycho aku ajek marah budak kecik..

Harini dia okay..back to rountine but longer sleeping hours..
So senang sket so that I can spend more time with Dania..


Dania tak gi sekolah sebab Babah dia tak larat nak bangun..

Tinggal kenangan

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